Monday, July 23, 2012

96. Seeing Adelyn be proud of herself

Day 96. Seeing Adelyn be proud of herself

     We have had lots of BIG changes the past few weeks. Adelyn no longer uses a pacifier, not even for nap or bedtime anymore. She now sleeps in a big girl bed. At first, everything was perfect. She stayed in her new bed all night and slept in until 9 most every day. Four days ago...that all changed. We think it's because she suddenly realized that she had freedom. She could get out of bed whenever she wanted to. So, we started the Supernanny method of putting her to bed: 1. Regular bedtime routine. Bath, books, prayers, kisses, etc. 2. Explain that it's bedtime, and that she must stay in bed. 3. Leave. 4. The first time she gets out of bed, we put her back to bed and tell her in a very loving way that it's bedtime, and she must stay in bed. 5. The second time...same thing, but in a more stern voice. 6. The third time and subsequent times...we put her back to bed without making eye contact or saying anything. Let's just say this about it...last night, I started crying.

     We had a victory with her nap time though. It took almost an hour and a half, but she finally fell asleep. When she woke up, she stayed in bed until we went to get her. When we did get her, we praised her about staying in her bed. We really made a big deal. High fives, lots of hugs and kisses, a special sticker...

     The look of pride on her face was amazing. Huge smile. You could tell she was very proud and pleased with herself. So worth all the hard work.  Love my Adelyn.

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